Top Books for New Moms- (and Dads-) to-Be


Congratulations! You’ve just been selected to join an exclusive club – motherhood! Now that you know you’re pregnant, your next question might be, “What’s next?” Here are some of MahoganyBaby.com’s picks to get you started.
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1. The Mocha Manual to a Fabulous Pregnancy by Kimberly Seals Allers ($15). Written by a black woman for black women, this book is tops when it comes to learning what to expect. Not only does it have the usual information (such as how to deal with the weight gain, tend to your partner and inform your boss about your pregnancy), it has special sections where readers get to hear what celebrity moms went through to have their babies. It’s good to know that pregnancy can make mere mortals out of the celebrities among us.

2. What to Expect When You’re Expecting by Helen Murkoff, Arlene Eisenberg, Sandee Hathaway ($14) – This book is the standard, helping pregnant women since its debut almost twenty years ago. Some readers have said it focuses too much on complications and what could go wrong. However, we’ve found that if learning about the different complications isn’t your thing, you can just skip those pages. Besides, it’s always good to have the information there, even if it doesn’t apply to you. A month-by-month guide is especially helpful in helping you break your pregnancy into manageable pieces.

3. Baby Bargains: Secrets to Saving 20% to 50% on Baby Furniture, Equipment, Clothes, Toys, Maternity Wear and Much, Much More! By Denise and Alan Fields ($18). Who (especially expectant parents) doesn’t want to save money? It can be overwhelming for new parents once they get over the initial joy of their new bundle and get hit with the sticker shock of baby items. It’s hard to imagine how anything so tiny could need so much stuff! However, as the title suggests, babies come with their own list of supplies. If you’re looking for ways to save but still want to get top-quality products, try this book as a starting point.
4. Belly Laughs by Jenny McCarthy ($13) – Witty, personal and chock-full of “I can’t believe she just said that!” moments, Jenny McCarthy’s journey through pregnancy might be the funniest book on the subject you’ll read. You’ll relate to practically every chapter in the book, and don’t be surprised if you find yourself laughing out loud. Who knew pregnancy was so hilarious?

5. The Expectant Father: Facts, Tips and Advice for Dads-to-be, 2nd edition by Armin A. Brott ($12). It’s a safe estimate that the majority of pregnancy books are geared toward women. After all, women are the ones who carry the baby and ultimately end up pushing it out. But men play an important role in the pregnancy also. Who else is going to go out at 1 a.m. to get a pint of butter pecan ice cream? Craving jokes aside, this book examines the real role of fathers and their emotions about the whole process. Give this book to your significant other so he can see that his feelings about the pregnancy are normal.

6. Rise Up Singing: Black Women Writers on Motherhood by Cecelie Berry ($14). Sometimes you feel like you’ve been so focused on your pregnancy and impending labor that you forget a major part – babies grow up! Although the books mentioned above will help you prepare for your pregnancy, what about when your child is out of diapers and in school? This collection of essays on black mothering will give you inspiration and encouragement for those days when you’re unsure of your own strength and wisdom.

Read any of these books? Email us at editors@mahoganybaby.com to let us know what you think!


 


Tara Pringle is associate editor of MahoganyBaby.com. Please contact her at Tara@mahoganybaby.com.